Understanding Introverted Appreciation

Love of all forms (not just Romantic Love) is an emotion that is expressed and received differently by different people. While some people may express love through words and gestures, others may do it in a more subtle way. Introverts are one of the latter kinds. They are known to be quiet, reserved, and private in their expressions of love and appreciation towards their loved ones. However, that does not mean they don't feel or show love. In this blog post, we will explore how introverts show their love and appreciation differently from everyone else.

Actions speak louder than words - Introverts tend to show their affection through their actions rather than their words. They may not say "I love you" often, but they will show it through small, thoughtful gestures like making tea, cooking their favorite meal, or taking care of them when they are sick. They are more likely to show their love in more private ways that are not necessarily loud or showy.

Space is equivalent to love - Introverts value their personal space more than anything else. So, when they choose to spend time with someone they love, it's a big deal. Giving someone space may seem cold or distant at first, but it's one way introverts show their love. They are willing to give up their valuable alone time to be with someone they care about.

Deep conversations - While introverts are not known for their small talk, they are excellent listeners and love to have deep and meaningful conversations. They prefer to engage in one-on-one conversations rather than group conversations. By discussing philosophies, values, and beliefs, introverts strengthen their connection with their loved ones.

Thoughtfulness - Introverts show their love and appreciation through their thoughtfulness. They remember important dates like birthdays and anniversaries, and they take the time to pick out the perfect gift. They are observant and keep track of the little things that matter to their loved ones, such as their favorite food or their preferred way to relax.

Respectful criticism - As introverts, they are not ones to speak out their mind freely, but when they do, they do it in a constructive way. When they criticize something, they do it with respect, and they don't attack. They want their loved ones to be better and grow, and they show it by giving feedback in a gentle manner.

Introverts are NOT cold or unfeeling people - in fact far from it. That said, they often have their way of showing love that is unique to them. Understanding their expressions of love is essential in any relationship. If you have introverts in your life, it's important to remember that they may not express their love in a way that is obvious, but they do show it in their unique way. And if you are an introvert yourself, remember that your feelings are valid, and there is nothing wrong with showing love differently. So, the next time someone tells you that you are too quiet or unemotional, remind them that introverts show their love and appreciation differently from everyone else.